The ever so looming VDay is right around the corner. If we could go back in time, let’s say three years ago, that Abby would be needing a swift kick in the rear. So here it is for anyone else who may need it.
Being single isn’t EASY around this time of year. Why? Because society has told us that Valentine’s Day is a day to celebrate your sig. other and if you don’t have one, you must be a sad and lonely person. But fear not! Society is WRONG. VDay is here to celebrate YOU! And you are strong, beautiful and the opposite of lonely, because you have US!
“Single is no longer a lack of options – but a choice. A choice to refuse to let your life be defined by your relationship status but to live every day Happily and let your Ever After work itself out.” – Mandy Hale
“There is no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it’ll happen in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason.”
“I wish I could show you when you are lonely or in darkness the astonishing light of your own being.” – Hafiz of Persia
“Single is not a status. It is a word that best describes a person who is strong enough to live and enjoy life without depending on others.”
“You are not a drop in the ocean. You are the entire ocean in a drop.” – Rumi
Single |sin•gle| (adjective) – Too fabulous to settle.
“A woman without a man is like a fish without a bicycle.” – Gloria Steinem
“If you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a relationship. Get your own life first, then share it.”
“Only through our connectedness to others can we really know and enhance the self. And only through working on the self can we begin to enhance our connectedness.” — Harriet Goldhor Lerner
“You cannot be lonely if you like the person you’re alone with.” — Dr. Wayne Dyer
“Love yourself first and everything else falls into line. You really have to love yourself to get anything done in this world.” – Lucille Ball
“Being brave enough to be alone frees you up to invite people into your life because you want them and not because you need them.” – Mandy Hale
“The greatest thing in the world is to know how to belong to oneself.” – Michel de Montaigne
“You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection” – Buddha
“Hope for love, pray for love, wish for love, dream of love…but don’t put your life on hold waiting for love.”
⇑ SO, don’t go hiding from Valentine’s Day, like Bart here! ⇑
Embrace the day. The day is for you to give yourself some much needed love. And don’t forget about everyone else you love. The only thing that not having a sig. other on VDay means is you don’t have to spend a lot of money on a present. (Not saying you HAVE to if you do have a significant other but you get it!) Use this day to appreciate those around you. And to practice a little Self-Care, because February is all about Self-Care!! ♥